Wow! I had to collaborate with a lot of my guy-friends. Do you realize I must share a secret about guys and our dating procedures?
DISCLAIMER: What I say may or may not be well accepted by the ladies. However, it’s not true ALL the time, but definitely at least 60 percent.
The answer: YES! We do know when a girl likes us and when she is interested in getting to know us better. Now, please don’t think that every guy is conceited, but we are not completely oblivious to the subtle gestures (sent off) by our female counterparts.
Basically it’s a defense mechanism. Consider it the “Art of Disclosure.” Think about what would happen if you were to be completely honest to a guy the first time you meet him. He might run away just because of commitment phobia. Therefore, you probably wouldn’t confess your undying love on a first date to him, would you? It’s that Games!
We all blame the “games” for our woes of dating. But, admit it! We all withhold information in order to better position ourselves in the dating world. I mean, let’s be honest about it, we don’t want to divulge all our secrets within the first few weeks of dating.
My advice: Just have fun. There is enough pressure from our society to get married. The last thing you need to rush is marriage – trust me! However, if for some reason the guy just doesn’t seem to grasp the fact that you are interested, your better off not putting your whole heart in it. Besides isn’t dating all about the chase. Let him chase for you. Nothing will make a man act quicker than thinking he might loose the girl he truly loves.